Thursday, January 27, 2011
Your mere presence
Bas ek dharm...
usse ishq se ishq hai
ye mein nahi kahta
mujhse mera ishq ye kahta
na mein hindu
na mein musalman
mera bas ek dharm
aur, ek imaan...
mera ishq, mera khuda...
mera khuda, mere dil, meri dua...
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
I thank you!
for being there with me always!
you were there,
you are there,
and, I'm sure you'll be there
whenever I feel blue
thank you
O my God!
thank you so much
and,
when I say 'so much'
I mean 'so much'
I love you
love you so much!
An adventurous journey to home!
Suddenly planned a programme to go home this weekend. Quite exciting becasue this time I took new route but didn't know soon this excitement would turn into adventure. Met many strangers, talked to them and felt good in fact. But, actually adventure started when I was 24 Km. far away from Jind, my home town. Some protesters blocked the way to show their anger to the Government. They were not allowing any bus/vehicle to go towards Jind. Route was blocked from all four sides of Jind. Our driver acted smartly. He reversed the car on the unused track rather than waiting in the queue. For around three hours we roamed here and there. Then we realised that we had lost our way. But, troubles were still in the queue. Our car suddenly stuck in the slush. We were not able to anticipate where we were exactly. It was dark there. No single light was there except our car headlights and mobile battery. But we didn't lose our hope. We kept trying and after half an hour we were again on the unknown track. By the grace of God, we saw railway tracks. Now we were following railway tracks and as a consequence we had reached on the highway at last. You won't believe we were just 3 Km. away from Jind city when we lost our way. We heaved a sigh of relief after almost five hours.
Really adventurous this journey was!
But, honestly speaking I enjoyed it very much.
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
The pursuit of happiness
A nice movie. But I took three days to watch it. Why? Possibly, lack of patience. But, see the movie itself gives the message 'Have patience and keep running. One day, you will achieve your goal'.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
A blissful weekend!
Besides, I had a narrow escape. But by the grace of God, everything is fine now.
Monday, January 17, 2011
Are we happier than our forefathers?
As we all know that change is the law of nature. And, one has to move ahead with an acceptance to these changes. So what are the changes which we see today if we compare our time with our forefathers' time. These changes are like: Advance education system, state-of-the-art medical technology, more business opportunity, improved agricultural techniques, hi-tech infrastructure, modern electronic equipments, better facilities such as hotels, transport, entertainment etc.
You'll be surprised, on one hand, I am against the motion that we are not happier than our forefathers, but on the other hand, I am counting the positive changes which we can see easily today but our ancestors didn't predict even. Yes, it is very much true that these changes are positive but it is also a hard fact that we have changed them into negative. Actually we are using these facilities but we don't know how to enjoy it.
First of all, we talk about modern agricultural techniques. Everybody knows that there is less physical labour due to modern machines, fertilizers, seeds, improved irrigation facilities but then why we consume packed foods, artificials vegetables and fruits, here artificial vegetables and fruits means which are made artifically with the help of vaccine only. Everyday we watch on TV how milk and other dairy products are adulterated with many chemicals and hair shampoos. Think for a moment, this is our basic diet and if we intake it regularly then in long-period what will happen? What's the use of those modern agricultual techniques if we are not getting fresh fruits and vegetables? We will suffer with horrible diseases in future. Yeah! I accept, now we have better medical facilities to control the diseases still the degree of increasing disease is much more than the medical facilities. State-of-the-art medical facilities but with long queues of patients having new types of diseases. Isn't it ironical?
Let's take another example of electrical and electronic equipments like washing machine, microwave, coolers, air-conditioners. These machines definitely give us comfort but don't you realize these give us instant comfort only as we can't ignore its long-term and side effects. And, we become so habitual of using these machines that we often forget to do pysical exercises. Then we go gym to do exercises. See again, there is irony, first we use machines to remove those physical exercises and giving us comfort then after some time we take pain and do the same physical exercise at the gym. Same is with transport system. Due to more business opportunites and empolyment, we have less time so we use advance trasnport system by purchasing own car, helicopters which in turn cause traffic jams, air pollution, sound pollution etc. And, do you know who suffers? We. If we observe minuetly, it can be said that more facilities create more problem. It is with everything whether it is entertainment business or education system.
Anyways, list is long but here I'd like to express my views that yes we have better things than our forefathers but we are not happier than them. Today we are not physically fit. We are always busy. Everybody is rushing towards his/her goals. Still no body is happy. Everybody is having a plasitc smile. Where is the real happiness? Think for a minute how much time we spend on mobiles, internet, TV but we have no time for our loved ones. Earlier, people were satisfied however they had limited sources of income, entertainment and comfort.They had time for their loved ones. There was peace which we can't find now-a-days. Today we have everything still we crave for small-small things. Don't we???
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Missing something
Anyways, I enjoyed the day!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Is punishment necessary?
Kept myself deprived of my favourite activity of the day deliberately. :-( :-( :-(
But, why?
While I was doing something wrong, I knew that I would suffer later still I did that...so I deserved to be punished like this only. This time, no acceptance of any kind of excuses. Sorry!
But yes! celebrated Lohri with friends in the evening. Music, dance, masti with lots of popcorn, mungfali and rewari. Umm...that's was full of fun and enjoyment!
Hostel Life
Hostel Life, a word synonymous with Freedom! And, if the freedom is used in positive direction, you can be on the top of the world but if it is used in negative direction then no one can save you. Mind it! :)
Yes! it's very much true. That's why some people have a bad impression about hostellers in their mind. It can depend on their own personal experiences also but it is hundred percent correct that 'Hostel Life' has its own positive and negative points. Poisitive points like independence in taking decisions, adjustments with the things as well as with people who are from different cultures. You learn a lot of things which you cannot learn while staying at home. Here, I mean that in hostels, chances are more to face the situations which you cannot imagine while staying with your family. Willingly or unwillingly, small or big but you have to take decisions for yourself. And, it is a fact that you are not always right. Decision can be right or wrong. But as a decision maker, you always grow emotionally or physiologically.
Besides, you have more time to think about yourself. You actually explore yourself. For instance, how to be happy when your mood is off becasue no one is there to make you laugh or pamper. How to manage strange situations like you are sharing a room with three other roommates. And, everybody has her own issues. Somebody has to study late night while somebody has to go to sleep early because of getting up early in the morning and rushing for office. At the same moment one roommate is in 'party' mood while the other one is crying becasue of big fight with boyfriend. Now manage yourself. These are just small-small things which matter a lot.
Now let's talk about the other side of the coin. Negative points of Hostel Life. You become careless becasue of lack of responsibility directly. You don't need to cook the food, clean the house or many other activites which you are supposed to do at home. In hostels, you do whatever you want to do. You behave like you are footloose. You watch movies, roam with friends and indulge in some bad activities, here you know what I mean. (don't want to mention as everybody has his/her own definitions of good and bad) You just do what you want to do becasue no one is there to point out you.
Here, I would like to suggest you something if you really accept these negatives and want to turn them into positives. Do make good friends. Friends are your lifetime assets. You not only enjoy good times but also share critical situations with friends. Sometimes you divert from your goal for which you are far away from your home and staying in a hostel. In such sitation you need friends to discuss or share your stuff. And, it will always be better if your family treats you like your friend and your friends treat you like your family. So be a good friend and make good friends to enjoy hostel life in real sense!
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
A small change
Sunday, January 9, 2011
Habit to forget...
I hurt someone today. And, the big thing is I know that. Maybe It's just the shadow of my broken heart. Anyways, I apologize just for hurting the feelings of the person. I think everything is materialistic in this world except the feelings you have for somebody if it is altruistic.
Only for Satisfaction
Friday, January 7, 2011
Sweet Pain
A day full of sweet pain!
Pain in body. Hands on computer. Tears in eyes. Still hope is there in heart.
It's always good to say 'no' when you really want to say 'no'. And, I really felt the goodness factor in the morning when someone tried to spoil my day but my simple word 'no' with a sweet smile did the magic...
But one thing I must remember always that I should not expect to be appreciated by others every time when I know I am right. Yes! I must remember it.
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Desire & Discipline
I sincerely thank the person who penned down such a beautiful thought.
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Seven Pounds
Got the message- 'If you do anything whole-heartedly, you will get success one day. Be it helping somebody, finishing any office assignment or loving somebody.'
A movie worth watching!
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Hasi Aur Khushi!
Boli-
Kaisi ho tum Khushi?
Maine palat ke pucha-
Mein, aur Kushi?
Boli wo, haan tum hi to ho Khushi
Mehsus nahi kiya kabhi, to karo abhi
Hasi aur Khushi,
Do pahlu hai ek,
sikke ke hi
Nahi bataiga duja kabhi koi,
Jalan se chup rahte hai sabhi
Aaj jaan lo, tum hi ho Khushi
Tabhi mein udd kar aayi,
Tumhare paas hi
Shveta...
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