Sweet Sister!

Dear friends, let me tell you one thing today. This blog is not all about I, me, and myself always! At times I write on behalf of others like some colleague, friend, character of a book/script, or sometime a co-traveler. But you must have observed that I always use ‘I’ ‘My’ ‘Me’ words just because to feel the character in me. So, you, please also read it as it is and feel the character in you. Believe me it’d be more interesting!

Okkk for this particular post, I tell you this is on behalf of my room partner. She is a great fan of her sister and now I am expressing her feelings ;)

My sweet sister!
Yes! she is very sweet
we are almost like twins
same eyes, same smile
but she is actually four years older than me :)


She behaves
as if she is my mentor
yes, she is...but first of all
we are very good friends
She is my teacher...
She is my leader
But hang on...
that doesn’t mean we never quarrel
Of course we do
But often forget at the same moment
At times it lingers on…but who cares?
that’s a fun also :)


We always enjoy together
While reading or playing
Cooking or shopping
With lots of masti and gossipings :)


But we are living apart now
Because she is married
But thank God!
She’s never get away from me
Not in talks…walks…and small-small moments :)


I am still her darling
She takes care of me as usual
This time with lots of questions like
‘Have you had breakfast…lunch…dinner?
Okkk what did you have in dinner?
But why didn’t you have this…?
Come see me this weekend, I will make for you’
Oh! C’mon dids I am not a kid…:)


Of course I am a kid for her
In fact
I always enjoy whenever she takes care of me like this ;)
Sometimes I feel
I am blessed with two mothers
One is my mother
And the other is my mother’s eldest daughter
my sweet sis ;)


Love you dids
Love you very much!

na jane kyo...

एक दिन खुश, बहुत खुश

दूजे दिन उदास

ना जाने क्यों जिंदगी,

 पल-पल लगने लगी कुछ खास

ना किसी से बैर, ना किसी से प्यार

या फिर समझ लो

सभी तो है अपने,

फिर किसी से कैसी तकरार

सच कहे, हमे तो है

अपने सपनो से बहुत प्यार  

जो  मन  करता  है  वो  करते  जायेंगे

हो जाता है तो ठीक

नहीं तो फिर से दम लगाएंगे 

कहते है 

किस्मत का लिखा कौन मिटाए

पर एक बार तो

किस्मत को भी हमसे, 

खेलने में मज़ा तो आये  

एक दिन खुश

दूजे दिन उदास

ना जाने क्यों जिंदगी,

 पल-पल लगने लगी कुछ खास!!!

...because I feel good when I sing!

World Music Day! But I sing everyday...

I sing when I feel good…I sing when I feel bad
I sing when I pray to God…I sing when I do household works
I sing when I feel attracted to somebody...I sing when I tease somebody
I sing in the shower…I sing on the occasions
I sing just by the way yaar!

How Opal Mehta got…a new life?

Monday blues! Getting up early in the morning and coming back to work place, Delhi from home town. However it’s never tiring to come back to Delhi but of course the thought of getting up early in the morning and traveling especially on Monday is always a headache for me. Approximately four hours traveling! Uff! :-(

But this time I was not so tired just because on the way I had a good sleep and read an interesting book for some time. Well, after reaching ISBT Kashmiri Gate, my next step was to take a metro for office. Don’t know why I don’t feel good even with a thought of traveling by metro now-a-days. Actually I know why but tell you later may be some other day ;-) Feeling good or bad, hardly matters, finally I was in Metro. No new thing was there as such.  In other words it can be said that each and every person was new for me there in fact. Well within half-an-hour I reached CGO metro station and now I was on escalators. A good looking guy was also standing there although many people were there. But I noticed only that guy. I liked his facial expressions. I was moving on my way to office but the boy was walking slowly. I was literally looking at him by turning back again and again. And every time I turned back, I gave a smile to myself only you know why because he was damn busy in reading a book ‘How Opal Mehta Got Kissed Got Wild and Got a Life - Kaavya'.

The whole story of Opal Mehta was now on my mind once again. A story all about positive attitude and confidence! But it was good to remind it especially on Monday morning. Anyways after almost ten minutes while I was entering my office, my phone rang. I just picked up the call and  suddenly I noticed the same book named ‘How Opal Mehta…’ again in somebody’s hands who was standing right in front of me and you know what he was the same guy whom I saw in the metro station. Maybe he was waiting for somebody there. But now he was giving me an innocent smile and I was looking at him with a surprise while talking on phone with somebody.

It was strange! Stranger than Opal Mehta’s Story? Wasn’t it? No! it was not! At times it just happens! :-)

Now you’d be surprised what the big deal was in that. Actually I was enjoying seeing him because some days back I read the same book with the same excitement. Bus or Metro, wherever I found space to stand comfortably while traveling I just started reading that book. But he was one step ahead of me. He was reading while walking on the road even. That was amazing! I was wondering which page he is reading and why this particular expression was on his face etc. but yes people around us took me otherwise definitely. ;-) But who cared? I was in my own world at that time. I was feeling so proud because this was the first time when somebody was reading a book which I already read. Well, everybody has his/her own destination. So he moved on his way. And, I was on my way.

Running into myself!

We meet so many people everyday. Some are known to us while countless are strangers. We always exchange words, news, ideas with whom we have a relationship. But believe me, we do have relations with strangers also. For instance in a bus, you travel with around 40 people everyday.

Though they are strangers for you but they are called your co-travelers. If you meet an accident someday then no known one can approach you to help on time but these co-travelers can.

Anyways it all depends on the situation and the types of persons you are with at the moment. My only purpose is to make you realized the importance of your unnoticed relationship with strangers. By the way why I am talking about relationships with known and unknown here :-)

Actually I realized one interesting thing in the evening while returning from the office by my chartered bus today. I was sitting in the first seat and thinking about something, suddenly I saw myself in the rear-view mirror of the bus. I saw myself as a stranger who was reacting exactly the same as I was acting. An image with so many questions in mind and mixed expressions on face. Then suddenly I smiled and got the same smile in return from the very image of mine whom I was looking at. That was a very pleasant as well as a touchy moment. I found myself very pretty. So innocent eyes! And, very beautiful smile! Ah! I ran into myself, the person who was actually the most concerned and sufferer one of all my activities and relationships. It was the person who was exact the same output of all my inputs with no extra toppings. Hey! Why do I always make efforts to build and maintain relationship with others only? Why not with myself? We often have complaints because we expect love, respect, praise, things, money etc. from others but in return we get the stuff according to their calculations only. It can be more or less but the person inside you gives you exactly the same which you give to it. He/she is happy if you are happy. He/she is worried if you are worried. He/she is with you always in any way or in every way, no other one can be; not even your loved one.

Wow! What a relationship it is!

You've to initiate...

I always believe one should be a person of place not the person of the family.  I feel very happy to be a person like that. It gives me a new energy, confidence and last but not least experience in fact.  I think there is no word like ‘boring place’ in the world. It’s you who actually makes the place boring or happening. It’s quite simple! If you really wanna enjoy, you can turn boring into happening. All you need to do is give your hundred percent to the current situation. If people are like you, it’s good for you and if they are not, then it is more good for you actually because it gives you a new experience to explore different kinds of persons. So just enjoy your presence there physically and psychology by being a person of the place. And, believe me everybody is ready to love you, you just have to initiate to love everybody…

Let's see...

I am a witness to what is happening now-a-days. I am playing my part with hundred percent but cannot force anybody to do it with their hundred percent. Yes, I can convince them and that I am doing with a yes mind. Still the results are ambiguous. But it does not mean I am not hopeful of…let the time play its own role… :)