Thursday, March 7, 2013

Seven Male Stars of My Life!






When I was born, a man was there to hold me; My Father

As I grew up as a child, a man was there to care and play with me; My Brother

I went to school, a man was there to help me learn; My Teacher

I became depressed when I lost, a man was there to help me; My Friend

I needed compatibility, company and love, a man was there for me; My Husband

I became tough, a man was there to melt me; My Son

When I wanted to be with myself, a man was there to guide me; My Guru


These are my stars. They love me. They help me. They protect me but from whom? Like me every girl has male stars in their life. That means my stars protect me from their male stars? Then my stars must be dangerous for those girls.


I ask you male members of my family and the society when everybody knows a girl is a girl and then why she is treated as a thing when you come to know she is not your sister/wife/daughter. When she is your relatives then you are so concerned for her but if she is of somebody else’s sister/wife/daughter then why you take her just a doll with whom you can play? Why so much double standards? 

Can’t you treat a woman as a woman? She is also a human being as you are. She has her own physical attributes which is blessed to her by Mother Nature and the very existence of yours on this earth just because of this blessing. Can’t you respect the reason of your own existence? Ask yourself. Can’t you do that?



6 comments:

Easwar Arumugam said...

Nice read. Patriarchal mind-sets against woman need change.

sudha...a touch of madness said...

Loved the concept behind it. Good job :)
You have been nominated for Liebster Award here: http://thelidislifted.blogspot.in/2013/03/more-love-coming-my-way.html

shvetilak said...

thank u for reading it n sharing ur thoughts here @ Arumugam Easwar & Sudha

shvetilak said...

@ Sudha thank u so much for this honour :)n congratulations to u too sweetie

I HEARD YOU said...

You have a nice blog..:) And it was a nice post indeed !

shvetilak said...

thank u so much @ I heard you

एक प्यारा सा बदलाव :) दिन बदला, साल बदला बदला हर मौसम भी, फिर भी अपना प्यार न बदला जबकि बदले कुछ तुम भी और कुछ हम भी ये भी एक सच है इ...